Tuesday, February 24, 2009
A child was born...a month ago
Saturday, January 17, 2009
Oh the comfort of your own bed...
Most people come to appreciate the comfy, coziness of their bed when they have to sleep in one other than their own. I, myself, experience this every time I stay at a hotel or at friend's or family's house. No matter how comfortable they THINK their bed is, mine is always better. Ending a vacation can be bitter-sweet sometimes, especially when you're not ready for it to end, but for me, the thought of coming home to my own bed usually helps to get over it. I'm sure most of you can relate. Well, I am here to add a little to that...I have recently learned that you cannot REALLY come to a complete appreciation of your own bed until you have spent a good amount of time in a hospital labor and delivery bed. I've spent some time in a regular hospital bed, and with at least half a dozen pillows, they really aren't too bad. Not the case with the labor and delivery kind! Who knew they were even different, right? I am convinced that gravity itself is pulled differently toward these beds than anywhere else on earth. Spending 8 1/2 hours in one on Friday (Jan 16th) led me to this conclusion. To make a long, emotional story short, basically I woke up Friday morning with some unexplainable bleeding. As I got Starr and Harmony up and on their way to getting ready for school, I remembered being woke up 2 or 3 times in the night with abdominal pains, which I brushed off, figuring it was the Beto's I ate late that night just before going to bed. After another trip to the restroom with more blood, I decided it to be wise to be seen by my doctor. A call to Julie, the nurse at the office, revealed the perfect timing of Dr. Twede's family vacation, of course! That meant being seen by Linda, the PA. Not really excited about that but have to do what I have to do. Next step, contact Damien. He was one week in to a two week class and had limited outside contact. (He wasn't even supposed to have his phone with him, but they made an exception because I'm pregnant. Something we joked about in the beginning but was super thankful for at the moment!) I sent him a text for him to call me as soon as he could, then called Mom, who was at work, and filled her in on the details. She came home to help get the girls ready and off to school, and I got in the shower. Once I was ready and on my way to the doctor's office, I told myself everything was going to be okay. They would check me out and send me back home. I would stop and treat myself to a Coldstone ice cream and that would be that. Not so. Linda checked me out shortly after I got there (I have never had a shorter wait for a doctor's visit!) and found that I was dilated to 2 1/2 cm and 80% effaced. A quick call to Dr. Twede, who was in Florida, confirmed her own advice...send me straight to Labor and Delivery. I was, well, we'll just say a little freaked out now. I was alone and scared that I was going to have this baby, something I was definitely NOT ready for yet, seeing as how mentally I was preparing for a MARCH delivery NOT MID-JANUARY!!! I haven't even had my childbirth prep class yet. And what about the baby? Could his little lungs sustain his life outside the womb? A million things ran through my mind...Anywho, I called Damien and gave him the news. He said he was leaving his class and would meet me at the hospital as soon as he could. (Another good thing about this class is that it was not out of state like most of the classes he has gone to!) So, once I got to the hospital, they hooked me up to the monitor and found that, sure enough, I was having contractions every five minutes. The crazy thing was that I didn't really even feel them. Sometimes, I could feel pressure, but nothing that hurt like I thought a contraction should have felt like. Needless to say, these needed to be stopped and fast. The nurse warned me that if I were to dilate 1/2 cm more, they would fly me, yes FLY ME, to the IMC hospital where they are equipped to take care of babies born earlier than 35 weeks. Good news is that modern technology has developed something to stop contractions and therefore dilation as well as steroids to help the baby's lungs develop. After 4 or 5 shots and about 8 hours of monitoring, they were comfortable letting me go home with a prescription and orders for strict bed rest to keep the contractions at bay. At this point, I'm willing to do whatever it takes to keep this little man cookin'. And here's where my bed comes into play. After laying in that horrible, gravity sucking hole they call a bed, nothing sounds better than to lay in my own. I just hope I feel the same come March 2nd! We'll see...
This was us hanging out at Altaview hospital waiting to see if the drugs were going to stop the contractions.
Sunday, December 21, 2008
Glucola=Nectar of the Devil!
Thursday, December 4, 2008
Ask and ye shall receive...
These pics were taken last week in New York. The clothed one at Times Square, and the surprise attack on the scantily clad, in the hotel room getting ready, obviously... :) hope it doesn't make you sick! hahaha! I guess I should mention I was in my 26th week.
Sorry I don't have very many pics of it. When I first found out I was pregnant, we talked about taking a belly picture every week so we could track and remember the changes. It was a great thought, but the hideousness of my growing out hair and my new super pale complexion prevented me from following through with it. How ridiculous is that!?! Those of you who know me very well, know that I LOATH having my picture taken. The ugly hair and loss of any sort of a tan only intensified my feelings for said photos. I know it's sad...but oh well. Just a word to the wise--
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
My baby bump
Thursday, November 20, 2008
Well hello again...
Friday, October 17, 2008
ITS A ...
From there, we had a nice lunch at Mimi's Cafe. Grandma kept saying how, in the ultrasound, she couldn't really tell what a lot of it was but that it made her heart stop when she saw the little heart beating. She knew what that was right away. I am so glad she was able to come. This was the first ultrasound she has seen other than on tv. After lunch, Michael and Yvonne met us to pick up Grandma so she could rest at their place while we shopped for groceries for the celebratory dinner we would be having that night. During the time we were waiting to meet them, Damien and I reminded Grandma that she couldn't tell anyone the sex of the baby. She promised she wouldn't and even practiced a couple times saying that we "are having a healthy baby," just in case anyone tried to get it out of her. When Michael pulled into the parking stall next to ours, Damien, Grandma, and I got out of the car. I gave Michael a hug and introduced Damien to him. They shook hands then Grandma gave Michael a hug and giddily got into the car while she said, "How exciting! A great-grandson!"...So much for surprises!!!
Thursday, October 9, 2008
What the old wives tales tell:
(thankfully!)
Friday, October 3, 2008
Boy or Girl...The final countdown
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
I HATE MARY-GO-ROUNDS!
Honey, I don't think that was gas!
Friday, September 26, 2008
My pregnancy so far
At the first doctor's appointment, which we had on July 30, 2008, at 9 1/2 weeks along, I weighed in at 134 lbs, a few pounds up from where I was before I found out I was pregnant. We listened to the baby's heartbeat with a doppler device. It was hard to find, but came in loud and clear, low on my right side, after a few minutes search. The baby's tiny, little heart was beating a whopping 174 beats per minute. Damien and I just looked at eachother with big, goofy grins on our faces until Julie, the nurse, removed the doppler wand from my lower abdomen. Neither of us cried. I felt calm and was in awe, as the fact that there really was a human life growing inside of my belly began to sink in. Next, she moved us into the ultrasound room where we got to see our "little peanut", as Damien was calling it at the time. It was amazing to see the heart beating and to be able to discern it's head from it's rump and to see the little nubs that were becoming hands and feet. There was no denying it. We had now seen the proof with our own four eyes. Here are a couple pics from that visit:
Getting prepped for my very first ultrasound
If you split the screen into fourths like this +,
the baby is in the top right. Kind of hard to see here.
We had the third visit just two days ago. I am 17 1/2 weeks along. I gained another 4 pounds, which Dr. Twede says is right where I want to be. One pound per week is good. My belly is measuring at 16 cm, also average for how far along I am. The books say the baby should be about 5 inches long from crown to rump. A lot bigger than the 1 inch length it was at our first visit. Again, we heard the baby's heart beat, which was 154 beats per minute.